Enter the mind of the Mental Assassin

  Finding Inspiration Without Losing Yourself We all have people we look up to; whether they’re leaders in our field, creatives we admire, or mentors who guide us. Their work, ideas, and success stories push us to improve. But there’s a fine line between inspiration and imitation. How do you take what inspires you and make it your own? 1. Absorb, Don’t Copy There’s a reason you admire certain people. Maybe it’s their work ethic, creativity, or approach to challenges. Instead of copying what they do, analyze why it works. What elements resonate with you? What skills do they have that you can develop in your own way? Tip:  Keep a journal of things that inspire you, but always ask, "How can I adapt this to fit my unique voice and perspective?" 2. Mix Influences Like a Chef Think of creativity like cooking. The best dishes aren’t made by copying one recipe; they’re a fusion of different flavors, techniques, and ingredients. The same goes for inspiration. Learn from multiple sourc...

  Valentine’s Day just passed, and while some were basking in romance, others felt a deep sense of loneliness. It happens every year, not just on Valentine’s but on other labeled celebrations too. Christmas can feel isolating for those without family, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day can be painful reminders of loss or absence, and birthdays don’t always bring joy to everyone. Society sets these dates to celebrate love, family, and togetherness, but what happens when you don’t have someone to celebrate with? Here’s what I realized: the rest of the year is for celebrating YOU. And that’s something you can do every single day. 1.  Happiness Shouldn’t Be Calendar-Based Why wait for one day in the year to feel special? A single date on the calendar does not define your worth, your love, or your joy. Instead of tying your happiness to external celebrations, make every day meaningful by doing something that makes you feel good, whether it’s treating yourself to a nice meal, learning so...

Valentine’s Day is all about connection, surprise, and understanding the one you love. But what if you could take it to the next level? Using the power of psychology, perception, and mind-reading techniques, you can create an experience that goes beyond the ordinary. As a mentalist, I see relationships as more than just words. They’re about reading between the lines, understanding emotions deeply, and creating unforgettable moments. Here’s how you can celebrate Valentine’s Day like a mentalist. 1.  Read Their Mind (Or at Least, Their Preferences) You don’t need supernatural powers to know what your partner truly wants. You just need to pay attention. Instead of asking, observe. Notice the small things: the way they react to certain foods, the music they hum when they’re happy, or the stores they linger in while window-shopping. Mentalist Move:  Before the day begins, make a prediction about how your partner will react to your plans. Write it down, seal it in an envelope, and o...

  As a corporate trainer since 2010, I’ve had the privilege of meeting and working with different kinds of leaders. And here’s what I’ve learned: when people hear "CEO," their minds often conjure images of luxury: business class flights, five-star hotels, expensive suits, and a life of effortless privilege. While these stereotypes may hold true for a select few, the reality for most CEOs is far from this glamorous perception. Being a CEO is not about luxury, it's about responsibility, sacrifice, and resilience. I have personal experience in running a business, and I can tell you, it's not a walk in the park. The Myth of the "Instagram CEO" Social media often perpetuates an idealized version of leadership. We see pictures of CEOs jet-setting across the globe, dining at exclusive restaurants, and showcasing their successes. But what these curated posts fail to reveal is the behind-the-scenes grind, the sleepless nights, and the weight of making decisions that ...

  Every year, the Cultural Center of the Philippines (CCP) comes alive with vibrant performances, workshops, and exhibitions during its much-anticipated  Pasinaya Open House Festival . Known as the largest multi-arts festival in the Philippines, Pasinaya is a celebration of creativity, diversity, and Filipino culture, drawing thousands of visitors to experience the arts in all its forms. This year, Pasinaya returns from  February 1 & 2 , bringing an eclectic mix of music, dance, theater, literature, visual arts, and film. The events will take place across multiple venues, including the CCP grounds and partner institutions. True to its mission of inclusivity, Pasinaya operates on a pay-what-you-can basis, inviting everyone to enjoy the richness of Filipino artistry. A Mentalist’s Grateful Return For several years, I’ve had the privilege of performing at Pasinaya, showcasing my unique art of mind reading. Each time I take the stage, I’m reminded of how special this fest...

  The Philippines is one of the most predominantly Christian countries in the world, with the majority of its population identifying as Catholic. Growing up here, I was deeply immersed in this faith. I was raised in a Catholic family, educated in Catholic schools, and have been surrounded by devout Catholics my entire life. Faith has always been a constant presence in my environment. which is why it’s particularly disheartening when some people see what I do as a mentalist and label it as "evil." The Misconceptions About Mentalism Throughout my career, I’ve encountered individuals who misinterpret mentalism as something sinister. Some leave Bible verses in my comment sections, while others openly criticize, believing that mentalism is rooted in supernatural or malevolent forces. One particular instance stands out: I was invited to speak at an event, but one of the other speakers backed out because he, as a Christian, did not want to share the stage with me. Situations like th...