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PERFORM TO ENTERTAIN, NOT TO WIN

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As a professional mentalist, I’ve performed at countless events, corporate galas, private celebrations, and everything in between. And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: the true goal of performing is to entertain, not to win.  When I step on stage, my focus isn’t on being the best act in the lineup or proving something to anyone. My focus is on creating moments of wonder, laughter, and connection for the people in front of me. Because at the end of the day, audiences don’t remember who “won.” They remember how you made them feel.  Shifting the Mindset   Performers sometimes get caught up in competition. Whether it’s comparing yourself to others or striving to outshine fellow entertainers, it’s easy to lose sight of the real purpose. But when you shift your mindset from winning to entertaining, everything changes. The pressure eases, your presence sharpens, and your performance feels more authentic.  I experienced this firsthand. When I joined Pilipinas Go...

HOW TO EMBRACE AI WITHOUT FORCING IT TO OTHERS

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  Artificial intelligence is everywhere. From the videos we watch to the apps we use, it’s already part of our lives, whether we notice it or not. But here’s the thing: the more we talk about AI, the more people seem to resist it. Some feel intimidated, others skeptical. And I get it. New things often trigger uncertainty. Most of the time, it’s about the person promoting it. Some people avoid using AI because of how it’s being pushed in their faces. So how do we promote and embrace AI without shoving it in people’s faces? The answer lies in subtlety, empathy, and storytelling. Show, Don’t Tell Instead of preaching about how powerful AI is, show how it helps. People connect with stories and results, not tech jargon. For example, share how AI helped you organize your ideas, speed up your workflow, or polish your next creative project. Let people see the outcome and curiosity will follow naturally. Make It About People, Not Machines AI isn’t here to replace anyone. It’s here to make u...

HOW TO CHOOSE A CANDIDATE FOR ELECTIONS LIKE A MENTALIST

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  Elections in the Philippines are more than just a political event; they’re an emotional spectacle. From grand rallies to heated debates, candidates pull every trick in the book to win votes. But as a mentalist, I see past the showmanship. I analyze behaviors, speech patterns, and psychological tactics to determine a candidate’s true intent. And you can do the same. Here’s how you can apply a mentalist’s mindset when choosing the right leader. 1.  Look Beyond the Words Politicians are masters of persuasion, using rehearsed lines and emotional appeals to win hearts. Instead of focusing on their words alone, watch their body language. Are their gestures aligned with their statements? Do they maintain eye contact, or do they look away when answering tough questions? A genuine candidate exudes confidence without overcompensating. 2.  Analyze Their Track Record A mentalist doesn’t just rely on what people say; we look at patterns. A candidate’s history speaks louder than thei...

BEING ORIGINAL

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  Finding Inspiration Without Losing Yourself We all have people we look up to; whether they’re leaders in our field, creatives we admire, or mentors who guide us. Their work, ideas, and success stories push us to improve. But there’s a fine line between inspiration and imitation. How do you take what inspires you and make it your own? 1. Absorb, Don’t Copy There’s a reason you admire certain people. Maybe it’s their work ethic, creativity, or approach to challenges. Instead of copying what they do, analyze why it works. What elements resonate with you? What skills do they have that you can develop in your own way? Tip:  Keep a journal of things that inspire you, but always ask, "How can I adapt this to fit my unique voice and perspective?" 2. Mix Influences Like a Chef Think of creativity like cooking. The best dishes aren’t made by copying one recipe; they’re a fusion of different flavors, techniques, and ingredients. The same goes for inspiration. Learn from multiple sourc...

CELEBRATE YOURSELF EVERY SINGLE DAY

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  Valentine’s Day just passed, and while some were basking in romance, others felt a deep sense of loneliness. It happens every year, not just on Valentine’s but on other labeled celebrations too. Christmas can feel isolating for those without family, Mother’s Day and Father’s Day can be painful reminders of loss or absence, and birthdays don’t always bring joy to everyone. Society sets these dates to celebrate love, family, and togetherness, but what happens when you don’t have someone to celebrate with? Here’s what I realized: the rest of the year is for celebrating YOU. And that’s something you can do every single day. 1.  Happiness Shouldn’t Be Calendar-Based Why wait for one day in the year to feel special? A single date on the calendar does not define your worth, your love, or your joy. Instead of tying your happiness to external celebrations, make every day meaningful by doing something that makes you feel good, whether it’s treating yourself to a nice meal, learning so...

HOW TO CELEBRATE VALENTINES DAY LIKE A MENTALIST

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Valentine’s Day is all about connection, surprise, and understanding the one you love. But what if you could take it to the next level? Using the power of psychology, perception, and mind-reading techniques, you can create an experience that goes beyond the ordinary. As a mentalist, I see relationships as more than just words. They’re about reading between the lines, understanding emotions deeply, and creating unforgettable moments. Here’s how you can celebrate Valentine’s Day like a mentalist. 1.  Read Their Mind (Or at Least, Their Preferences) You don’t need supernatural powers to know what your partner truly wants. You just need to pay attention. Instead of asking, observe. Notice the small things: the way they react to certain foods, the music they hum when they’re happy, or the stores they linger in while window-shopping. Mentalist Move:  Before the day begins, make a prediction about how your partner will react to your plans. Write it down, seal it in an envelope, and o...

BEING A CEO DOESN'T MEAN LUXURY AND BUSINESS CLASS FLIGHTS

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  As a corporate trainer since 2010, I’ve had the privilege of meeting and working with different kinds of leaders. And here’s what I’ve learned: when people hear "CEO," their minds often conjure images of luxury: business class flights, five-star hotels, expensive suits, and a life of effortless privilege. While these stereotypes may hold true for a select few, the reality for most CEOs is far from this glamorous perception. Being a CEO is not about luxury, it's about responsibility, sacrifice, and resilience. I have personal experience in running a business, and I can tell you, it's not a walk in the park. The Myth of the "Instagram CEO" Social media often perpetuates an idealized version of leadership. We see pictures of CEOs jet-setting across the globe, dining at exclusive restaurants, and showcasing their successes. But what these curated posts fail to reveal is the behind-the-scenes grind, the sleepless nights, and the weight of making decisions that ...