2024: THE YEAR I CHOSE MY PEOPLE

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As the year draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on a decision that fundamentally shaped my 2024.This year, I set out with a simple yet profound theme: to be, and surround myself with people who genuinely wanted me around or truly needed me around. It sounds straightforward, but it required intentionality, self-awareness and a bit of courage. Looking back, I can confidently say this theme turned my life into one of smooth sailing, positivity, and meaningful connections.

The Power of Choosing Your People

We’ve all heard the saying, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” While clichéd, this idea holds incredible truth. This year, I took it to heart. I decided to invest my time and energy into relationships that added value to my life...not in a transactional way, but in a way that nurtured mutual respect, support, and growth.

This meant identifying people who celebrated my presence, valued my input, and reciprocated my efforts. It also meant letting go of those who brought unnecessary drama, negativity, or indifference. At first, this filtering process felt daunting. After all, distancing yourself from people, even when it’s for your well-being can feel uncomfortable and even guilt-inducing.

But here’s the thing: when you create space in your life by letting go of toxic or unfulfilling relationships, you make room for deeper, more meaningful connections. And that’s exactly what happened.

What Changed?

1. Drama-Free Living: Letting go of chaotic relationships brought me peace and clarity. Without unnecessary arguments or negativity, I had more
energy for what mattered.

2.Genuine Positivity: Surrounding myself with supportive people create uplifting and inspiring interactions. Every conversation felt light and meaningful.

3. Clarity and Focus: With fewer distractions, I became more productive and aligned with my goals.

4. Emotional Resilience: A supportive circle gave me confidence and strength, helping me trust myself more.

Moving Forward

As I step into 2025, I carry this lesson with me: Choosing your people wisely makes life brighter and more joyful. Take a moment to reflect: are your relationships nourishing your soul or draining it?

How about you? What was your theme for 2024?

Location: Philippines

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